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Adir-Dor-Yahu | Desert Sage's avatar

If I may share a personal perspective on some parts of the article, my "two cents"; right or wrong, should still present consideration. The subject is in infancy being studied.

Mental health is real, but it is not a "get out of jail free" card when it comes to accountability. While severe mental health conditions can impact perception, reasoning, and impulse control, reaching a point where a person no longer recognizes right from wrong requires addressing the spiritual component as well. Oppression and even possession are real forces that can influence behavior, but they do not remove responsibility for one’s actions.

I experienced this firsthand after an accident left my frontal lobe damaged. The frontal lobe is responsible for critical thinking, problem-solving, impulse control, emotional regulation, and social appropriateness. Essentially, it acts as the brain’s filter, helping us weigh consequences and align our actions with moral and social standards.

Due to my injury, I lost that filter and said and did things I was ashamed of. I had no control over my impulses, yet I was completely aware of my actions. I knew what I was doing was wrong, and the guilt and shame only compounded the struggle. This proves that even when mental health or neurological conditions impair self-regulation, awareness of right and wrong remains. The challenge is learning to manage impulses, seek counselling and healing, and take responsibility rather than using mental health as an excuse for harmful actions.

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Sergio, I greet you with the immeasurable love of Jesus Christ, whom I love with all my heart, mind, and soul, who shows me great mercy. I am a recovering Calvinist so your message here is greeted with an added measure of appreciation.

Also, I struggled with mental illness, as did many of my family members, some quite sever. Have you seen, "A Beautiful Mind" with Russel Crowe? Well, I do not often suggest Hollywood, that one was stumbled upon accidently when my husband was watching. Anyway, that was my home so perfectly displayed on screen that I wept for 6 hours.

I think that the greatest thing about God being God is that he knows the heart and the mind. No, not a fluffy statement but the best my words can accomplish.

I suffered legitimate scapegoating in my family, severe bullying as I grew up, and suffered with my home life being on one hand wonderful with a mother who LOVED the Lord SO MUCH, and a father who was unhinged at times and I have no better word than to say, "insane".

So I fell into step with my own mental health problems of anxiety and depression. But my story is different from the ones in your article because I did love the Lord and I am the only one outside of Him to be able to declare it to be so (even when I attempted suicide).

The details of mental illness and treatments are ugly and of absolutely zero help, and not helpful to share as that glorifies illness - no good so that is, as I say, is that.

After mom and dad passed away things go so much worse with the scapegoating - and Church pastors, a small group, and my family were all on board. Needless to say I got worse.

My consistent question was, "If everyone is a Christian, why don't they love me? If they are what they say they are why are they doing these things, capitalizing on my sins, then ejecting me and pushing me into isolation?"

Not an easy story to tell - and no, it isn't resolved in the relationship arena by any stretch.

BUT OH! MY LORD LOVED ME! OH Sergio, he was so so so good to me and when I asked what was wrong he was faithful and he did answer! PRAISE HIS HOLY NAME!

You see, Calvinists are quick to tell you how bad, so very bad you are! And if you are bad, then the next step is natural - you apparently are not chosen. So sorry - so sad - too bad - we all know these things because the group agreed it to be so. To top it off, it is no different than saying that Satan wants everyone (especially the bad ones!) but God only wants a few. Ok, deep breath here because this is tough when you are THE target. I mean, what was I supposed to do with that? Give up?

Another piece of the doctrine that fails is what the Lord led me to.

LOVE

The argument between theologians is long and deep about what the gospel is - and that hovers over the law, faith, and works. So I ask where is love outside of the book written by C.S. Lewis? And why do pastors, (many I have heard) preach against it as if the Love of God was ever a worldly concept defined by "them". Yet, it is like listening to the ladies on "The View" virtue signal by saying "they don't love their neighbor" yet leave off "as themselves". (Ok, that was a highlighted story on a news story - I can't watch lol.)

Have we forgotten who God tells us he is?

1 John 4:7-8 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God and everyone that loves is born of God and knows God. He that doesn't love doesn't know God for God is love. Beloved, let us love one another.

Matthew 22:37-40 - Jesus tells us the GREATEST commandment is to Love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and mind. The second is like it. Love our neighbor as ourselves.

And to discover what God does and who he is, turn to 1 Corinthians 13 and discover that everything people say the gospel is - is NOTHING without love.

Love is the linchpin! No greater love is this than when Jesus laid down his life for us! And when we do the same, there is no greater thing because love is the greatest!

I was stuck in my mental health nightmare thinking I had failed in faith, or wait, never had it - and what a trip to think I did (see how messed up this is making people like me?).

What was true is that my belief/faith was broken, and I had no hope, all true because love was missing.

So when you speak of these folks who took lives in a mental health nightmare, the heart is his to judge, yet when did they see life as a hopeless mess before taking lives? God says murderers don't go to heaven but Paul! But David! But Moses!

When did these you spoke of however, reject the love of God, which is available to all? We just don't know that story and I tend to believe God would give a killer a "road to Damascus" moment because he loves and heals those who's hearts are ready for his message. And honestly I am glad God takes that one because we do not know if God handed them over to a reprobate mind (Romans 1:26-32) and detest even thinking of it - yet here we are.

I also think that all of us need to heed the words, "Today is the day of salvation" because we don't know if death or mental incapacity comes tomorrow. What does that mean in the eternal sense? Sigh, I have my doubts that someone given the opportunity to respond in love to love and never did - well again.... is it lame for me to repeat that it isn't my choice and I am relieved at that?

I am sure I have said much that isn't quite correctly put but my hearts intent is love - my story that was full of SELF LOVE (2 Timothy 3) and landed unexpectedly in God's LOVE (1 Cor 13) and you have inspired me to say, "Love the Lord EVERYONE! Galatians 5 tells us there is no law against these things! And in multiple places the scripture tells us that loving our neighbor as ourself falls into the realm of Jesus work of love. We have a wonderful opportunity to show mercy and grace and endure when it is fully rejected.

Thank the Lord that he changes our hearts so we can produce such supernatural love, an amazing power missed by so many. Now remains faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love!"

Thank you for your articles - I am on 3 so far, like a book I can't put down.

God Bless you and thank you for being so open to comments and your generous replies I am enjoying as well.

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